What College Coaches Really Look for Beyond Stats and Flash

Introduction

It’s easy to think that if you have the goals, the speed, the flashy plays, you’ll have college coaches calling. But in last week’s webinar, Coach Michelle Tumolo reminded us that there’s a lot more depth to what coaches seek. Beyond raw talent, they care about character, leadership, attitude—and those can be the difference between “maybe” and “yes.”

Key Attributes Coaches Value

• Reliability & Consistency – Being someone coaches can count on, every game, every practice.

• Attitude in Adversity – How do you handle mistakes? Tough losses? Criticism? Coaches see this as a signal of future potential.

• Leadership – Not always loud, but often steady. Leading by example, supporting teammates, helping lift morale.

• Communication Skills – Both with teammates and coaches. Being coachable, taking feedback, clarity in how you present yourself.

How to Demonstrate These in Your Recruiting

• In Practice/Game- Hustle plays, helping teammates, clean defensive work

• In Video / Highlight Reels- Choose clips that show decision-making, attitude, not just goals

• Off the Field / Interviews- Volunteer work, school leadership, positive interactions

What Coaches Avoid

• Players who only show up when everything is perfect

• Athletes who struggle to take coaching or feedback

• Someone who looks good in highlights but doesn’t display teamwork or mental toughness

Conclusion

Stats will open doors, but your character is what gets people to walk through them with you. Coaches are watching more than just scores—they’re looking for the person behind the number. Cultivate reliability, integrity, and leadership, and you’ll catch their eye.