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Different Paths to College Lacrosse: Why Every Athlete’s Journey is Unique

Introduction

For many young players, the journey to college lacrosse looks like a straight path: standout youth days → high school recruiting → early commit. But the truth is, there is no single “right” path. Coach Michelle Tumolo emphasized in our recent webinar that every athlete’s timeline is unique—and late bloomers are just as capable of making an impact.



Paths You Might See



  • Early Stars – Players who gain recognition early (middle school or early high school), attend camps, get exposure, commit early.

  • Late Bloomers – Athletes who improve later, maybe have fewer early opportunities, but work hard, grow physically or mentally, and still earn offers.

  • Academic-First Students – Players who choose schools based primarily on academic offerings, then find lacrosse programs that match.

  • Transfer & Post-Grad Routes – Some athletes use prep schools, take a postgraduate year, or transfer to find better fit or more exposure.





What Makes Each Path Valid



  • Consistency Over Time – Continually showing up, improving, and demonstrating character matters more than an early highlight reel.

  • Resilience & Adaptability – Overcoming challenges, showing growth. Tumolo stressed that coaches value how players respond to setbacks.

  • Awareness & Initiative – Knowing what you want, communicating with coaches, attending camps or showcases, using tools & videos even if you’re a late starter.





Tips for Athletes & Parents



  1. Don’t compare timelines – It’s tempting, but everyone moves at a different pace.

  2. Focus on growth – Skills, fitness, mental toughness.

  3. Use resources wisely – Camps, showcases, video tools, mentorship—all helpful whether you’re early or late.

  4. Keep an open mind – The “right fit” may not be where you first expect it to be.




Conclusion

Your recruiting journey isn’t a race with a fixed start or finish. Whether you’re shining early or finding your stride later, what matters most is becoming the athlete—and person—coaches want. Every path has its own milestones, challenges, and victories. Embrace yours.

 
 
 
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